*I wrote this piece two years ago in my personal blog. The words have never been truer.
Dear Svelte,
Barely
six months before the year ends with six important reminders to Self!
1. Do Not Waste time. Spend it wisely with your friends
and loved ones and beautiful people who do not suck the energy out of you. Of
course, you cannot control negative people and their awesome negativities.
Hindi ka naman Magikero. Avoid them gently with civility at heart. A revealing part is this
– Do Not Waste Time means Make Time. Make time for the Soul, for the Body, for
the Family, and for the Community. Be delighted of the time you have but do not
be confined with Looking Forward. Instead, live A Moment while It lasts.
2.
A friend back in the theater days said, ‘When in doubt, pout!’ Maybe aside from the pouting, When In
Doubt, Just Keep One’s Mouth Shut for a while. Look at the bigger picture.
Look at the implications. Suspend feelings of doubt and convert them into
positive energies. When the right time comes and you know you are ready,
confront Doubts. You owe it to yourself an Enlightened Spirit. Always aim
for moments of Clarity.
3.
Projectize, Projectize, and Projectize. Because there is so much to do and there is so much Love to Give. If some life projects become slow, do
not fret because you can only take so much. Treat them as an extensive project
but make sure you have gains along the way. Celebrate accomplishments.
Again, You owe it to yourself if you feel you achieve something. Believe that you are making progress. But will It be nice if you can also document your progress.
4.
Dreams do come true. Whatever forms, they will be yours and they
will reveal themselves before you in the right time. No one, not even Climate Change can take that right time
and moment from you. Continue to perfect your craft. Work diligently and yes,
always choose to learn the hard and persistent way! Place your passions in a
strategic manner. Do not be a Cry in a Wild. Remember, Reaping is seasonal. You
may reap today but you must sow other seeds for tomorrow. Visualize. What
matters most is that your dreams are being built and they are not
just one-time one-hit wonders.
5. It
can happen to you! That thing called special feeling, that thing called
Relationship. But there is that thin line that separates love and Juan Tamad.
Can you act on it? Of course, not in an overly deliberate manner. A step
forward won’t hurt. Try to look around.
6.
Continue building a Shared Destiny. Despite the bad weather yesterday, I
had a share of few laughs and heart talk with my high school beki
friends. My bestest Rawn told me of what happened lately with his mother. It
turned out that his Mom went clinically depressed due to many visitations in
the hospital for some random check ups. Among other reasons, we suspected
a withdrawal syndrome. We reasoned
out it may be because his mom may have realized that her children are beginning
living separate lives. And the youngest siblings (not Rawn) are starting to venture
out since they just graduated from college. There were moments of shared thoughts like we
gays are ’destined’ to care for our parents because we’d have our
hetero sisters and brothers lead families of their own and
give us all their nieces and nephews in return!
In a light moment, I said to Rawn that it is about time that he and
his mother make all the 'rampa’ they can get. Would it be wonderful if
they can go to parlor together, have their nails done together, shop
together, pamper altogether? As I look back, the conversation left
open. But there is that shared moment that we should become more
proactive in our relationships with our parents. And we agreed that we should
let our mothers (our fathers have passed away) continue whatever they do to
keep themselves busy. Among others, by supporting their vices! (like in my case,
unending house renovation project and yes, it is a vice because it is so damn
out of proportions already!)
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